So it’s January, prime diet starting time, and I want to know:
Did you choose to try follow a few new rules, deny yourself your favorite treats, tell yourself that this time (this time i swear!) I will finally get control of my eating and sort this body out? Did you choose to give this controlling your body and your eating with outside ideals and restriction another go (even though deep down you know it ain’t going to work)?
Or have you chosen to set yourself free. To start eating for pleasure and joy and radiance. Have you chosen to make peace with yourself and peace with your plate? Have you chosen the path of discovering how to be a happy, healthy, peaceful eater (and woman) not just this month but every year to come? Have you decided that enough is enough and you are FINALLY READY to let go of what isn’t working and embrace the intuitive, vibrant woman you feel you can be?
Whatever your choice; you are a brilliant, wonderful human being. There are no wrong answers.
How do you eat? What is your relationship to food like?
Are you an all-or-nothing kind of a person; either being super good and eating a perfect clean/paleo/sugar free/plant based/whatever diet. But then when you break your food composure by having a treat, it turns into an all-out feast cause’ “screw it, I might as well eat ALL THE THINGS.”?
Or maybe you are the kind of person who eats when it’s lunch time. Who eats when they SHOULD. Who chooses the correct portion sizes based on what they had read somewhere.
Or maybe you eat mindlessly. Eating just because its’s there. On AUTOPILOT.
However you eat and relate to food, I would bet that’s how you approach other areas of your life too.
When we want to reach a food/body goal (whether that be weight loss, increased health, clear skin) we are encouraged to seek out a plan of action on how to achieve it. To find some external information on what, when and how much to eat. We are told to use our willpower, self-control and unwavering focus on our goal to make the plan stick.
We are lead to believe that is the best and only way.
There is a common belief out there that diet’s work but you suck. That if you want to trim down, stay slim, drop a few pounds (or a few 10s of pounds) that dieting in some way is the method to get you there and if you can’t make it work, it’s because you failed.
By diet, I mean anything you do to alter your food intake to alter your body weight. Diet for you might be called a lifestyle change or an eating guideline or just eating healthy. Whatever alternative name it has, I am here to tell you Diet’s. Don’t. Work. You are not flawed, the concept of dieting is. Here are 6 reasons why.
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Steps you can take today to start re-connecting your bodies and mind in order to create a happy, healthy and pleasurable relationship to food (and your life!).
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It wouldn’t surprise me if it does because I get asked that a lot.
The “will I lose weight” question makes me want to grab one of the wooden crates in my kitchen (yes, there are wooden crates in my kitchen. Filled with empty bottles. A remnant of hubby’s home brewing operations, not alcoholism) and jump on it soap box style to launch into a discussion about the validity and the personal, social and cultural impact of weight loss as a goal in the first place.
But I know you were not after a lecture. Will save that for another time.